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Born in Virginia, on February 22nd, 1732, George Washington was the eldest son of Augustine and Mary Ball Washington, both of whom were wealthy Southern gentry of English descent. Washington spent his early years close to nature, taking walks on the family’s Pope’s Creek estate along the Potomac River. As a member of the gentry, his early education was conducted through private tutorial, and included arithmetic, surveying, classic literature, and “rules of civility.” After his father died in 1734, George went to live at the Potomac Plantation of his older half-brother Lawrence who became a surrogate father to George.
Although George’s desire was to sail the high seas, his mother effectively thwarted this desire, so instead he began a career as a surveyor. With the help of Lawrence’s influential in-laws, in 1749, George was able to land a prominent position surveying the Shenandoah Valley, helping to lie out the Virginia town of Alexandria. In 1752, Lawrence fell ill with tuberculosis and George accompanied him to Barbados in hope for a cure. Lawrence, however, died while in Barbados and upon his return to Virginia, George inherited his half-brother’s Mount Vernon Estate.
By 1773 tension broke out between the British and the French over control of the Ohio Valley, and in 1754 escalatedinto the French Indian War creating new opportunities for young Washington. Although hewas only 22 years old and inexperienced, Washington fast learned the ropes of management rectifying problems with recruitment, supplies, and desertion with a mixture of brazenness and inborn talent that soon earned him respect from both his inferiors as well as his superiors. In April 1754 while on his way to Forks, Ohio, Washington learned that the French were preparing to attack. Washington immediately set about erecting fortifications known as Fort Necessity and marched to intercept the advancing French troops. Successful in their attack, Washington’s men killed the French Commander and captured most of his men. Several days later however, in a rain-drenched, all-day battle, the French overwhelmed Fort Necessity, resulting in Washington surrendering to French forces and capitulating to their demands. Washington retained the right of marching his men with dignity back to Williamsburg, Virginia.
Dispirited by his defeat, put off by internal military politics which effected enlisted men, and dissatisfied with the low pay he received as a soldier, in 1754 Washington resigned from the military. However, the following year (1758), due to fear of another French attack, Washington rejoined the military and, based onhis previous battlefield experience, likeability, and remarkable statesmanship and leadership ability was promoted to the position of Commander-in-Chief of the Virginia militia at only 23 years old.
Washington once again left military life in 1758 with the hope of settling down and turning his attention to his Mount Vernon plantation. The following year he married Martha Dandridge Custis, a wealthy widow with two small children of her own.
In June of 1775, following the military skirmishes at Lexington and Concord, Massachusetts having commenced against the British, Congress unanimously voted Washington as commander-in-chief of the Continental army. On July 3rd of that year, Washington took command of an undisciplined, amateur army of 14,000 men with insufficient ammunition and short of other needed supplies to confront the profession soldiers of the British army. In March of 1776, using a captured British cannon hauled over 200 miles from Fort Ticonderoga, NY, Washington maneuvered a contingent of his men up Dorchester Heights from where he outflanked the British forces ensconced in Boston below and opened a surprise attack handing the British their first defeat and forcing theirretreat.
Washington then moved to defend New York City. Initially, hetook up a position in Brooklyn that he was unable to defend and after suffering a significant defeat, skillfully engineered a series of dramatic retreats to the middle of Manhattan, thence to Washington Heights. White Plains and finally crossing the Hudson River to Fort Lee, New Jersey. From there he continued to retreat across New Jersey, and later into Pennsylvania. The purpose of these strategic retreats was to avoid confrontations with the superior British forces until the right opportunity could open up for a successful fight. Meanwhile his men were starving and freezing, supplies were of the essences, and more men where deserting every day. It was all Washington could do to maintain both his morale as well as the morale of his men.
Colonial morale was briefly revived while on December 24th1776, Washington and his men stealthily crossed the Delaware River and attacked the British in a brilliantly conceived surprise attack near Princeton, New Jersey. The ensuing military operations created a stalemate in New Jersey. Meanwhile, the Southern Colonial Forces through the leadership of Southern Generals Nathaniel Greene, Daniel Morgan, and Charles Lee were making steady headway in their advances against the British. Eventually, theseseasoned Southern Generalswere now able to devote more of their attention to the Northern Front, forcing the British to relinquish their control over the colonies..
After the war Washington returned to his plantation, which had suffered losses in his absence. While working the plantation, Washington experimented with crop rotation, business ventures, and traveled west to examine his land holdings near the Ohio River.
After the first attempt at forming a government of the united colonies failed, there were suggestions that Washington be appointed “monarch” for life. Washington declined the entreaty, but on April 30th, 1789, allowed himself to be sworn in as the first President of the United States of America in New York City. While in office, Washington acted decisively to build a lasting executive structure that would be at both strong enough to whether opposition and setbacks while being malleable enough to accommodate change.
In 1789, when Washington retired fromoffice after serving two terms, leaving the nation’s economy and infrastructure in asolid position, and significantly reducing Indian threats from over the Mississippi River. Almost 10 years later, in mid-December of 1798 Washington contracted an infection and died December 14th of that year.
From Washington’s life we learn (1) that at times a retreat from a small battle can lay the foundation towards winning the larger war; (2) that even when necessary to retreat, we can do so with dignity; and, (3) the value of civility—treating everyone with value and respect. Although Washington was gifted in many areas and blessed with grace and good favor in the eyes of his fellow man, it was his common decency and integrity that has ultimately earned him the good name and reputation he continues to have today.
Binyamin Klempner, MSW is a psychotherapist and life coach. He lives in Ramat Beit Shemesh Aleph with his wife and two children. He can be reached for consultations and appointments at 02-9999-764.
*Information for this article was gathered from: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/George_Washington and http://sc94.ameslab.gov/TOUR/gwash.html.
Thursday, March 19, 2009
Milton H. Erickson, MD: A Hypnotic Personality
Perhaps one of the greatest American born thinkers and healers is Dr. Milton H. Erickson, MD. Born in 1901, in Aurum, Nevada, to a gold miner and housewife, Erickson, came from humble origins. When Erickson was several years old, he returned with his parents to the family farm near Lowell, Wisconsin. Although it became clear in his early childhood that he had a brilliant mind and would be the first of his family to attend university, Erickson worked the farm no differently than his parents and siblings.
Two stories are told of Erickson during this stage of his life. The first is that his father was attempting to force a stubborn horse into the barn by pulling on its reigns, but to no avail. Erickson, at eight years of age asked his father to let him have a try. His father was amused and at his son’s suggestion stepped out of the horse’s way. Young Erickson then went behind the horse and yanked at its tail. Needless to say, the horse ran into the barn. His father was amused, impressed, and glad he hadn’t been in the horse’s way.
The second story told of Erickson during the early years of his life is when he found a stray horse near the Erickson family farm. Young Erickson adeptly mounted the horse, gave it a gentle kick, and let it begin walking. When the horse began straying off the road, Erickson gently nudged it back on track. Several hours, and about 13 miles later, the horse walked into the yard of its owner. The owner asked how Erickson, a boy of no more than 14, knew to whom the horse belonged and how to get there? Erickson explained that he did not know, but he knew the horse did, and it was simply a matter of his keeping the horse focused and moving along.
At the age of 17, Erickson contracted severe polio that paralyzed him. Late one night, as he lay in his hospital bed, he overheard three doctors telling his parents that he would be dead by morning. Erickson was incredulous. He was determined not to die without seeing the sunrise and proving the doctor wrong. Semi-delirious and with slurred speech he asked his mother to remove the dresser from in front of the window. He then spent the next several hours staring out the window determined not to shut his eyes (for that would be fatal) and to behold the sunset and the recovery it would bring. Indeed, Erickson said that sunset remained with him for the rest of his life and taught him an important lesson in the vast power of mind over matter, and of mind as a healing resource.
Leaving him too weak to continue farming, Erickson decided he might do better as a medical doctor. Unable to move for many months, Erickson entertained himself by watching people. He learned to read body language and amused himself by watching people say one thing verbally while conveying something else with their body language. Indeed, Erickson was so astute at watching body language and movement that he taught himself how to walk again by observing his infant sister as she learned to walk.
In the summer of 1922, as part of his recovery from infantile paralysis which he contracted three years earlier, Erickson set out on a 1200 mile canoe trip, which began at Lake Mendota outside of Madison, Wisconsin and finished somewhere along the Mississippi River. At the beginning of his journey, still weak from polio he was unable to carry the canoe, butat the end of his voyage he had no difficulty paddling up current and porting his canoe without help from others.
Erickson worked as Director of Physicians at a community hospital in Michigan where he experimented with the metaphoric and hypnotic approaches to communication for which he is best known. In one case, a patient , thinking he was George Washington, spent his days walking aimlessly around the hospital grounds. Erickson, finding this patient’s lack of societal contribution most disturbing, approached him and asked, “Is it not true that you are President George Washington?” “Yes, it is true” came the reply. “That begin the case,” said Erickson, “you most certainly know a great deal about farming and landscape, as that was your occupation prior to entering into politics.” The patient was forced to admit that he did indeed know a great deal about farming. “The hospital is looking for an accomplished gardener to serve as a grounds keeper, I would like to appoint you to that position.” Although the patient continued to hold fast to his belief that he was President Washington, due to Erickson’s intervention the patient became a productive member of the hospital “staff” for many years thereafter.
In his fifties Erickson developed post-polio syndrome, leaving him with chronic pain and weakness of muscles,and as a result moved to Phoenix, Arizona. It was in Phoenix that he began his private psychotherapy practice and teaching seminars. He developed hypnotic techniques to block out pain and discomfort and taught these techniques to his students and patients. At a time when long term insight oriented psychoanalysis was the norm in the field of psychotherapy, Erickson developed short term ways of empowering his patients and getting them back on their feet. Among these ways was his unique way of helping people to see things in a different light. For example he might ask a patient of his to go for a walk in the desert and notice something they have never noticed before. In so doing his patients were forced to see things differently and inevitably began to see their problemsin a different light..
Erickson’s life, aside for being a lesson in tenacity and perseverance, is a lesson in seeing things differently. Erickson taught us that if we are willing to see our problems in new and different lights, more often than not, with surprisingly little effort, we will find the solutions we seek as close as our own hearts and minds.
Binyamin Klempner, MSW is a psychotherapist and life coach. He lives in Ramat Beit Shemesh Aleph with his wife and two children. He can be reached for consultations and appointments at 02-9999-764.
*Information for this article was gathered from: Milton H. Erickson: An American healer (2006); Betty Alice Erickson, M.S., Bradford Keeney, PH.D.; Ringing Rocks Press: Sednona, Arizona and My Voice Will Go With You (1982); Sidney Rosen, M.D.; W.W. Norton & Company Ltd: New York and http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Milton_H._Erickson
Two stories are told of Erickson during this stage of his life. The first is that his father was attempting to force a stubborn horse into the barn by pulling on its reigns, but to no avail. Erickson, at eight years of age asked his father to let him have a try. His father was amused and at his son’s suggestion stepped out of the horse’s way. Young Erickson then went behind the horse and yanked at its tail. Needless to say, the horse ran into the barn. His father was amused, impressed, and glad he hadn’t been in the horse’s way.
The second story told of Erickson during the early years of his life is when he found a stray horse near the Erickson family farm. Young Erickson adeptly mounted the horse, gave it a gentle kick, and let it begin walking. When the horse began straying off the road, Erickson gently nudged it back on track. Several hours, and about 13 miles later, the horse walked into the yard of its owner. The owner asked how Erickson, a boy of no more than 14, knew to whom the horse belonged and how to get there? Erickson explained that he did not know, but he knew the horse did, and it was simply a matter of his keeping the horse focused and moving along.
At the age of 17, Erickson contracted severe polio that paralyzed him. Late one night, as he lay in his hospital bed, he overheard three doctors telling his parents that he would be dead by morning. Erickson was incredulous. He was determined not to die without seeing the sunrise and proving the doctor wrong. Semi-delirious and with slurred speech he asked his mother to remove the dresser from in front of the window. He then spent the next several hours staring out the window determined not to shut his eyes (for that would be fatal) and to behold the sunset and the recovery it would bring. Indeed, Erickson said that sunset remained with him for the rest of his life and taught him an important lesson in the vast power of mind over matter, and of mind as a healing resource.
Leaving him too weak to continue farming, Erickson decided he might do better as a medical doctor. Unable to move for many months, Erickson entertained himself by watching people. He learned to read body language and amused himself by watching people say one thing verbally while conveying something else with their body language. Indeed, Erickson was so astute at watching body language and movement that he taught himself how to walk again by observing his infant sister as she learned to walk.
In the summer of 1922, as part of his recovery from infantile paralysis which he contracted three years earlier, Erickson set out on a 1200 mile canoe trip, which began at Lake Mendota outside of Madison, Wisconsin and finished somewhere along the Mississippi River. At the beginning of his journey, still weak from polio he was unable to carry the canoe, butat the end of his voyage he had no difficulty paddling up current and porting his canoe without help from others.
Erickson worked as Director of Physicians at a community hospital in Michigan where he experimented with the metaphoric and hypnotic approaches to communication for which he is best known. In one case, a patient , thinking he was George Washington, spent his days walking aimlessly around the hospital grounds. Erickson, finding this patient’s lack of societal contribution most disturbing, approached him and asked, “Is it not true that you are President George Washington?” “Yes, it is true” came the reply. “That begin the case,” said Erickson, “you most certainly know a great deal about farming and landscape, as that was your occupation prior to entering into politics.” The patient was forced to admit that he did indeed know a great deal about farming. “The hospital is looking for an accomplished gardener to serve as a grounds keeper, I would like to appoint you to that position.” Although the patient continued to hold fast to his belief that he was President Washington, due to Erickson’s intervention the patient became a productive member of the hospital “staff” for many years thereafter.
In his fifties Erickson developed post-polio syndrome, leaving him with chronic pain and weakness of muscles,and as a result moved to Phoenix, Arizona. It was in Phoenix that he began his private psychotherapy practice and teaching seminars. He developed hypnotic techniques to block out pain and discomfort and taught these techniques to his students and patients. At a time when long term insight oriented psychoanalysis was the norm in the field of psychotherapy, Erickson developed short term ways of empowering his patients and getting them back on their feet. Among these ways was his unique way of helping people to see things in a different light. For example he might ask a patient of his to go for a walk in the desert and notice something they have never noticed before. In so doing his patients were forced to see things differently and inevitably began to see their problemsin a different light..
Erickson’s life, aside for being a lesson in tenacity and perseverance, is a lesson in seeing things differently. Erickson taught us that if we are willing to see our problems in new and different lights, more often than not, with surprisingly little effort, we will find the solutions we seek as close as our own hearts and minds.
Binyamin Klempner, MSW is a psychotherapist and life coach. He lives in Ramat Beit Shemesh Aleph with his wife and two children. He can be reached for consultations and appointments at 02-9999-764.
*Information for this article was gathered from: Milton H. Erickson: An American healer (2006); Betty Alice Erickson, M.S., Bradford Keeney, PH.D.; Ringing Rocks Press: Sednona, Arizona and My Voice Will Go With You (1982); Sidney Rosen, M.D.; W.W. Norton & Company Ltd: New York and http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Milton_H._Erickson
Sunday, August 31, 2008
Washington's Strength
President George Washington went down in history as being a genius military strategist who valiantly lead the Colonists as they defeated the British Army. What is not so well known is how he did it. General Washington had only the bare minimum of supplies and was working with a small (and relatively poorly trained) army. Washington knew this. He was well aware of his weaknesses and knew that any offensive would most likely end in the unnecessary death of his soldiers, the defeat of the Colonists, and a British victory. Instead of attack, Washington demonstrated elegant retreat. Having a realistic assessment of the situation, he realized that the time had not yet come (nor would it come) for an offense based victory; however through perpetual retreat deeper into the countryside Washington knew that eventually the British would simply give up and in this way he would be victorious. This is exactly what happened. Washington won the revolutionary war through the strategy and practice of active retreat while waiting for his enemy to tire and fall. This same strategy was successfully employed by the Russians against Napoleon. In our lives when active striving is not helping us reach our goals we may want to consider a strategy of active and elegant retreat.
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Wednesday, August 27, 2008
Learning from Karl's Pain
Karl Meltzer set out on August 5, 2008 to run the 2,174 mile Appalachian Trail in 47 days. Although do to serious pain in his leg he will not set the record he was hoping to set this time around, he is never the less running and plan's on finishing the trail despite a week of excruciating leg pain. In the blog he posted yesterday, Karl writes, "The pain was so severe that I sat on the side of the trail almost crying, thinking about my next move. After 5 minutes, I started moving again and the pain subsided. And then all of a sudden I could run again..." Karl's words contain several great lessons. Sometimes we are in pain, sometimes the pain is excruciating. At such times about the only thing we are able to do is sit on the side of our proverbial life's trails, plan our next move, cry, and wait out the pain. Plans are wonderful, they keep us moving forward. Tears are wonderful, they clean the soul. Patience is wonderful, it builds character. There are times when the pain seems as if it will never go away and then the next moment its gone...And we can run again. So next time we are in pain and the pain seems to be without end it would be wise of us to remember what Karl did and...Sit...Plan...Cry...Wait...And when the pain goes away start running again.
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Friday, August 22, 2008
Keep on Hiking
As I write this blog the 2008 Summer Olympics are taking place in Beijing. The worlds best athletes compete against one another in displays of fierce concentration, determination, and physical prowess. Meanwhile, in the hills of Vermont there is an super athlete who is competing against himself in a heroic display of determination and perseverance. His name is Karl Meltzer. Starting on August 5, 2008 Karl set out to complete the 2,174 mile Appalachian Trail in 47 days, thereby breaking the record. Unfortunately do to excruciating trench foot Karl was forced to take a few days off the trail. This time around he will not break the record. However, what he is accomplishing is certainly record breaking of other sorts. Karl could have just as easily gone back to his home in Salt Lake City engaged in a five star pity party, but instead Karl is determined to finish the Appalachian Trail regardless of any record. Karl Meltzer is more than an athlete, he is a man of integrity. As I was hiking with my three year old son yesterday he slipped and fell. I helped him back up and said to him, "There's nothing wrong with falling, but there is something wrong with not getting back up after the fall." My son began repeating these words so as to commit them to memory. Karl Meltzer is teaching us that there is nothing wrong with falling but there is something wrong with not getting back up after the fall. For this teaching we owe Karl a debt of gratitude. Keep on hiking Karl!!!
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Sunday, August 17, 2008
Be Your Own Best Friend
“I am not bound to win, but I am bound to work at winning. I am not bound to succeed, but I am bound to get up, no matter how many times I fall.” (Abraham Lincoln)
He walked the walk.
Age 22 – He failed in business.
Age 23 – He ran for the Legislature and was defeated.
Age 24 – He failed in business - again.
Age 25 – He was finally elected to the Legislature.
But then…
Age 29 – He was defeated for Speaker of the House
Age 34 – He was defeated for Congress.
Age 39 – He lost another bid for Congress.
Age 46 - He was defeated for the Senate.
Age 47 – He was defeated for Vice President.
Age 49 – He was again defeated for the senate.
But then…
Age 51 – He was elected president of the United States.
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CELEBRATE YOURSELF!!!
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Monday, July 28, 2008
Power Tools (Book Trailer)
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Sunday, July 27, 2008
Today's Headlines: "Passenger tries to open plane door mid-flight"
Apparently, on a flight between Greece and Manchester several young alcoholic girls in their mid-twenties where drinking too much, angry at the flight attendant who would not serve them any more, hit the flight attendant with a bottle of whiskey and then decided, the whole ordeal being too much for them, that some fresh air was necessary, and attempted to open the door at 32,000 feet. The plane had an emergency landing in Frankfort, the girls were arrested, given a breathalyzer test, sure enough they were drunk, put back on the place, and sent home to England. The story is humorous, nevertheless, we need to examine in what ways we are drunk and trying to open the plane door at 32,000 feet in the flights of our own lives.
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Tuesday, July 22, 2008
Today's Headlines: "Chaotic Debate on Major Vote in India"
Chaos by its very nature is haphazard, mixed up, unclear, and confused. Matters that are debated and decisions that are made in an atmosphere of chaos will have chaotic outcomes. When debating important issues and making big decisions we should do so with clear level heads. We should not be afraid we remove ourselves from chaos when making important decisions.
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Monday, July 21, 2008
Today's Headlines: "Obama Arrives In Iraqi City of Basra"
I don't know what exactly Senator Barack Obama was doing in the Iraqi city of Basra, but one thing is for certain, it was in order to put him in good standing towards being elected as President of the United States. One thing we can learn from this is that if their is something that you really want and you have made up your mind to achieve it, you will do whatever it takes and go where ever you need to in order to accomplish your goal. There is no getting in the way of firm convictions. The Rabbi of Lubavitch encouraged some one with the words, "if you seek you will find." Indeed, that seeker did find.
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